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๐ŸŒธใ€ไบบ้–“้–ขไฟ‚ใ€‘ใ€Œ็ธๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใ€ใฏใ€ใ€Œ่™ซๆญฏใ‚’ๆŠœใใ€ใฎใจๅŒใ˜่ซ–็†๏ผŸ

ไธ–ใฎไธญใ€ใฟใ‚“ใช็ตŒ้จ“ใ™ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ†ใฎใŒใ€ใ€Œใ“ใฎไบบใจ็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ€ใจใ‹ใ€Œใ“ใฎไบบใ‚’ไป•ไบ‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅค–ใ—ใŸใ„ใ€ใจใ‹ใ€ใ€Œ็ธๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใ€ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚
In this world, what everyone may experience is “cutting ties” which is something like, “I want to sever ties with this person” or “I want him to get out of my job”.

 

ใใ—ใฆใ€ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œ้›ขใ‚ŒใŸใ„ใ€ใ€Œ็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ€ใจๅผทใๆ€ใ†ใฎใ ใŒใ€ไธญใซใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่จดใˆใ‚‹ใฎใŒใ‚ใ‚“ใฉใใ•ใ„๏ผˆใ‚นใƒ ใƒผใ‚บใซๅˆ‡ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€้›ขใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ€ๅค–ใ›ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„๏ผ‰ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๆˆ‘ๆ…ขใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚

We would strongly desire to cut ties with them as we feel stressed whenever we are with them. But, in some cases, we would not be able to cut ties successfully because it either would not go smoothly or not have a way to get rid of them. ย So, the only thing we can do is just to be patient.

 

ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่™ซๆญฏใ‚’ๆŠœใๆ™‚ใจๅŒใ˜ๅŽŸ็†ใ ใจใ„ใ†ไบบใŒใ„ใŸใ€‚

Someone told me that the concept of โ€œcutting tiesโ€ is the same as โ€œgetting a cavity removed.โ€

 

่™ซๆญฏใฏใ€ใใฎใพใพๆ”พ็ฝฎใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆญฏใซใ‚‚ๆ‚ชใ„ใ—ใ€ใ‚‚ใฃใจ่จ€ใ†ใจๅฅๅบทใซใ‚‚ๆ‚ชใ„๏ผˆใคใพใ‚Šใ€ไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ ใ‹ใ‚‰้›ขใ‚ŒใŸใ„ใจใ„ใ†ๅฟƒ็†๏ผ‰ใ€‚ใใ—ใฆใ€ๆŠœใๆ™‚ใฏ่พ›ใ•ใ‚„็—›ใ•ใ‚’ไผดใ†ๆ™‚ใŒใ‚ใ‚‹๏ผˆใคใพใ‚Šใ€้›ขใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€ๅˆฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎๆฏ”ๅ–ฉ๏ผ‰ใ€‚
The theory says that if we leave the cavity unremoved, it would be bad for our teeth, more so our health. In analogy, if we keep staying with people whom we want to cut ties with, it will make us stressed. And when we try to have the cavity removed, it may take a long time or be accompanied by pain.

 

็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ€‚ใงใ‚‚ใ€ใ„ใฃใŸใ‚“ๆŠœใ„ใฆใ—ใพใˆใฐใ€ใ‚ใจใฏๆฅฝใซใชใ‚‹ใ€‚

Same goes with cutting ties. But once it is removed, we would feel very comfortable.

 

็ธๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใฏใ€็ฐกๅ˜ใซใ„ใใจใฏ้™ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚ๆ™‚้–“ใŒใ‹ใ‹ใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใ‚“ใฉใใ•ใ„ๆ™‚ใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Cutting ties donโ€™t always go smoothly. Sometimes, it takes a long time to resolve,ย  or is bothersome.

 

ไพ‹ใˆใฐใ€็งใŒไป•ไบ‹ไธŠใ€้–ขใ‚ใ‚ŠใŸใใชใ„ไบบใ‹ใ‚‰้›ขใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใพใงใ‚‚ใ€้žๅธธใซใ‚ใ‚“ใฉใใ•ใ‹ใฃใŸใ—ใ€่พ›ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚

For example, when I wanted someone to get out of my job, until it was solved, I had been very stressed out and it had bothered me a lot.

 

ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไปŠๅพŒใพใŸ็ธๅˆ‡ใ‚Šใฎๅฟ…่ฆๆ€งใŒๅ‡บใฆใใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œ่™ซๆญฏใฏๆŠœใ„ใŸใ‚‰ๆฅฝใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใพใง้ ‘ๅผตใ‚ใ†ใ€ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ€‚

Ever since I have known this theory, whenever I face some relationship problems, I would encourage myself and say, โ€œComfort awaits when I have my cavity removedโ€.

 

๏ฝžๅ˜่ชž๏ฝž

โ—†็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹๏ผšsever ties with๏ฝž/ใ€€cut ties with๏ฝž

ไป–ใฎ่จ€ใ„ๆ–นใจใ—ใฆใ€โ€œcut somebody offโ€, “cut off ties with๏ฝž”ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚

 

ไพ‹ๆ–‡๏ผš

ๆ•…ๆ„็š„ใซใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅ‚ทใคใ‘ใ‚‹ไบบใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ™ใใซ็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใฃใฆใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใ‚“ใ˜ใ‚ƒใชใ„ใ‹ใชใ€‚

1. If somebody intentionally hurts you, you can cut him/her off immediately.

2. If somebody intentionally hurts you, you can cut ties with him/her immediately.

3. If somebody intentionally hurts you, you can cut off ties with him/her immediately.

 

๏ฝžๅ˜่ชžใฎใƒใ‚คใƒณใƒˆ๏ฝž

Same goes with cutting ties.๏ผˆ็ธใ‚’ๅˆ‡ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ€‚๏ผ‰

 

ใ“ใ“ใงไฝฟใฃใŸโ€œsome goes with๏ฝžโ€ใฏใ€ใ€Œ๏ฝžใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚‚ๅŒใ˜ใ€ใ€ŒๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใŒใ€

ไป–ใซใ‚‚่จ€ใ„ๆ–นใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ไธ‹่จ˜3ใคใฏๅŒใ˜ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใ™ใ€‚

1.ย  Same goes with cutting ties.

2.ย  Same goes for cutting ties.

3.ย  The same goes for cutting ties.