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๐บใๆๆใๆๆ ใฎใใ้ใใผๅฐ่ชฌใ่ณข่ ใฎ่ดใ็ฉใใใๅญฆใถใใจ
Title: Different Ways Of Loving โ Learning From the story โThe gift of the Magiโ
No matter how much couples love each other, they still argue, donโt they? Both of them love each other deeply, but sometimes, their behavior and thoughts toward each other may cause them to hurt or be hurt.
ใฉใใปใฉๆใๅใฃใฆใใ็ทๅฅณ้ใงใใใใ้ใใใๅงๅฉใซใชใใใจใฃใฆใใใใพใใใ๏ผใไบใๅฅฝใใชใฎใซใปใปใป็ธๆใฎใใใๆใฃใ่กๅใงๅทใคใใใใๅทใคใใใใปใปใป
Do you know the story โThe gift of the Magiโ by O. Henry? It tells the story of a poor couple.
ใ่ณข่ ใฎ่ดใ็ฉใ๏ผไฝ่ ๏ผใชใผใปใใณใชใผ๏ผใจใใ่ฉฑใใๅญใใงใใ๏ผใใจใใ่ฒงใใๅคซๅฉฆใฎ่ฉฑใงใใ
One Christmas, they both wanted to buy a heartful present for each other, but unfortunately, neither of them had enough money to afford a gift. The husband had a gold watch, which he cherished a lot, so she sold her long, beautiful hair to buy a platinum-fob chain for him. On the other hand, he sold his gold watch in order to buy a comb for his wife, as he knew his wife wanted a comb.
ใใใฏใชในใในใฎๆฅใใไบใๅฟใฎใใใฃใใใฌใผใณใใ่ฒทใใใใฃใใฎใงใใใ่ฒงใใใๆ ใซใใฌใผใณใใ่ฒทใใ้ใใใใพใใใงใใใๅฆปใฏ่ชๅใฎ้ทใใฆ็ถบ้บใช้ซชใๅฃฒใฃใฆใ้ใซๆใใๅคซใๅคงไบใซใใฆใใ้ใฎๆ่จใซใคใใใใฉใใใฎ้ใ่ฒทใใพใใใไธๆนๅคซใฏใใใฎ็ฅ็ถใใๅใ็ถใใ ๅคงไบใช้ใฎๆ่จใ่ณชๅฑใซๅ ฅใใๅฆปใๆฌฒใใใฃใฆใใๆซใ่ฒทใฃใใฎใงใใ
On Christmas day, as they exchanged presents, the wife already cut her hair and the husband already didnโt have the gold watch. But, both of them accepted their gifts and appreciated the others thoughtfulness and sacrifice.
ใฏใชในใในๅฝๆฅใไบใใใฌใผใณใใๆธกใๅใใใจใใๆใๅฆปใฏใใฎๆซใไฝฟใ้ซชใฎๆฏใฏใใ็กใใชใฃใฆใใฆใๅคซใ้ใใคใใใฏใใฎ้ใฎๆ่จใๆใฃใฆใใพใใใงใใใปใปใปใงใใใไบใใๆใใใใใๅใๅใใๅคงไบใซใใใจใใ่ฉฑใงใใใใใใใฎ็ฉ่ชใฎใใใใใงใใ
Why is the title of this story โThe Wiseโ giftโ? I think,ย it is because this couple gave each other a heartful and thoughtful present, not just any item that’s bought with money. Both of them looked carefully at what the partner really wanted.
ใฟใคใใซใใ่ณข่ ใฎ่ดใ็ฉใใจ็งฐใใใฆใใใฎใฏใใใฎๅคซๅฉฆใฏๅใชใ็ฉใงใฏใชใใใๆฌ็ฉใฎๆใใใใใใไบใ่ดใฃใใใใใใฎๅคซๅฉฆใใใ่ณข่ ใใจ่กจ็พใใฆใใใฎใงใใใใไบไบบใจใใ็ธๆใๅใถใใจใใๆณจๆใใฆ่ฆใฆใใใใใงใฏใชใใงใใใใใ
What does your partner say to you, or what behavior does your partner show to you? For me, as long as he has thoughtful intentions, then why wouldn’t I take it as a positive meaning. At the end of the day, itโs the thought that counts.
ใใฆใ่ฉฑใๆปใใพใใจใใใ้ใใๆใใๆใ็ธๆใใฉใฎใใใช่จใๆนใใใใใใใฉใฎใใใช่กๅใใใใใใใใใซใๆใใใใใใใใฐใ่ฏใๅใๆญขใๆนใใใฆใฟใฆใใใใใใใใพใใใญใ็ตๅฑใฏใใๆใใใซไพกๅคใใใใฎใงใฏใชใใใจๆใใพใใ
I want to emphasize that there is one important condition – Look at your partners’ needs carefully, the same way the couple in the story did for each other. Look at what makes your partner happy and put it above your own needs and desires. Otherwise, things will not go well.
ใงใใไธใคๅคงไบใชๆกไปถใใใใพใใ่ณข่ ใฎ่ดใ็ฉใฎใใใซใใ็ธๆใใใ่ฆณๅฏใใฆใใใใฉใใใใงใใ็ธๆใๅใถใใจใใ่ฆใใใจใงใใใใใๅคงไบใชใใงใใใใใใใใฆใใใจใไธๆใใใใพใใใญใ
I find that “loving” and “sacrificing” brings a couple an enjoyable future. Her hair will grow, and she will one day be able to use the gift her husband sacrificed to get her, the comb. And, although, he doesn’t have a watch and can’t use his wife’s gift, the chain, perhaps one day she will be able to buy his repurchase his watch for him.
ใใฎ็ฉ่ชใใใใใไธใคๅญฆใใ ใใจใใใใพใใใๆใใใใจใใซใฏใไฝใใ็ ็ฒใซใใใใจใใไผดใใใใใใพใใใใงใไบไบบใซใฏใๅฐๆฅใฎๆฅฝใใฟใใๅญๅจใใพใใไพใใฐใ็ฉ่ชใฎใๅฆปใใฎ็ซๅ ดใ ใจใๅใฃใฆใใพใฃใ้ซชใฏไผธใณใพใใฎใงใใๅคซใใ็ ็ฒใซใใฆๅพใๆซใใใคใไฝฟใใใจใ ใฃใฆใงใใใใงใใ๏ผไฝฟใๆฅฝใใฟใใใใพใ๏ผ
ใๅคซใใฎ็ซๅ ดใ ใจใๆ่จใฏๅฃฒใฃใฆใใพใฃใฆใชใใฎใงใใใใใคใไปๅบฆใฏใๅฆปใใใใฎ้ใซไผผๅใๆ่จใใใฌใผใณใใงใใๆฅใๆฅใใใใใใพใใใ
No matter what happens, they will have a lot of fun and an enjoyable future together.
ใใ้ใใใจใ ใฃใฆใใใงใใใใใงใใใใใใไฝใใใใคใใไธ็ทใซๆฅฝใใใใใจใๆชๆฅใใใใฃใฆใ่ใใฆใฟใพใใใ๏ผใใใ็ด ๆตใชไบใ ใจๆใใพใใใ
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