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Title: How to Change Our Bad Character

 

Sometimes, we learn that our shortcomings bring about bad results.

ใŸใพใซใ€่‡ช่บซใฎๆฌ ็‚นใŒๆ‚ชใ„็ตๆžœใ‚’ๆ‹›ใ„ใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ“ใจใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹๏ผŸ

 

These shortcomings can cause us to have bad character traits and may have caused us trouble, such as resulting in our relationships to collapse, our jobs to be jeopardized, our marriage to be strained, or even our lives to be lived under a pile of debt.

ไพ‹ใˆใฐใ€็Ÿญๆ‰€ใฎใ›ใ„ใงไบบ้–“้–ขไฟ‚ใŒๅฃŠใ‚Œใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ“ใจใ€ ไป•ไบ‹ใงๅคฑๆ•—ใ—ใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ“ใจใ€็ตๅฉš็”ŸๆดปใŒไธŠๆ‰‹ใใ„ใ‹ใชใใชใฃใŸใ“ใจใ€ใพใŸใฏๅคš้กใฎๅ€Ÿ้‡‘ใ‚’่ƒŒ่ฒ ใฃใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ“ใจใƒปใƒปใƒปใชใฉใชใฉใ€ๆ€งๆ ผไธŠใฎๆฌ ็‚นใŒๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ใ“ใจใฃใฆใ•ใพใ–ใพใงใ™ใ€‚

 

All of this is due to hopeless and unacceptable character.

่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆ€งๆ ผใจใฏ่จ€ใˆใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ใฉใ†ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใ‚‚ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ—ใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใ‚ˆใƒปใƒปใƒปใจใ‹ใ€ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ใ‚Šๅพ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใƒปใƒปใƒปใจใ„ใ†็Šถๆณใงใ™ใ€‚

 

Generally speaking, changing our defect is not easy. Although, no matter how difficult it is to change these flaws, it is not totally hopeless. There is still a chance to change and turn things around. I personally achieved it, so I have confidence to give advice.

้€šๅธธใ€่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆฌ ็‚นใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฃใฆใ€็ฐกๅ˜ใงใฏใชใ„ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญใ€‚ใงใ‚‚ใ€ใฉใ‚Œใปใฉ้›ฃใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใงใ‚‚ใ€ๅธŒๆœ›ใŒใชใ„ใƒปใƒปใƒปใจใ„ใ†ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใชใ„ใฎใ‚’ใ”ๅญ˜ใ˜ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ๏ผŸๅฎŸใฏใ€็งๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใซๅค‰ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใŸใฎใงใ€่‡ชไฟกใ‚’ใ‚‚ใฃใฆ่จ€ใˆใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€ๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฏใ€ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚

 

Whenever we are in a deep pit of despair or experiencing an extremely miserable situation due to our own shortcomings, please don’t automatically think of it as a hopeless situation. We have a chance to change our bad character traits because we are able to learn to acknowledge the situation and root causes of the problems.

ใใ‚Œใฏใƒปใƒปใƒป่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆ‚ชใ„ๆ€งๆ ผใฎใ›ใ„ใงใ€ใฉใ‚“ๅบ•ใซ่ฝใกใฆใ—ใพใฃใŸใจใ‹ใ€ใ‚‚ใฎๅ‡„ใ่พ›ใ„็ŠถๆณใซใชใฃใŸๆ™‚ใŒใ€ๆ€งๆ ผใŒๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚‹ใใฃใ‹ใ‘ใจใชใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ™ใ€‚ไฝ•ใ‹ๅ•้กŒใŒ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใ€ใ€Œใ“ใฎๆ€งๆ ผใฎใพใพใ˜ใ‚ƒใ€ใƒ€ใƒกใ ใ€‚ๅ›ฐใ‚‹ใ€ใจใ„ใ†็Šถๆณใซๆฐ—ใฅใ„ใŸๆ™‚ใ€ๆ€งๆ ผใฃใฆๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใ€‚

๏ผˆโ€ปใใฃใจใ€ใ€Œๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚‰ใชใใ‚ƒใ€ใจใ„ใ†ๅผทใ„ๆ€ใ„ใŒใ€ๅค‰ใˆใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚“ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใญ๏ผ‰

 

As long as we recognize all the negative aspects in our lives are brought on us by our own bad decisions or behaviors, this acknowledgment may lead us down the path of change by getting rid of our stressful and negative character traits, in order for us to live happily.

่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ้–“้•ใฃใŸๅˆคๆ–ญใ‚„ใ€่กŒใ„ใŒใใฃใ‹ใ‘ใงใจใ‚“ใงใ‚‚ใชใ„ๆ‚ชใ„็ตๆžœใซใชใฃใŸใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใซใ‚‚ๆฐ—ใฅใใ•ใˆใ™ใ‚Œใฐใ€ใ“ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใ‚‚ใชใ‚‹ๆ‚ชใ„ๆ€งๆ ผใ‚’ใชใ‚“ใจใ‹ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ€ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใชใ‚“ใงใ™ใ€‚ๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€ๅนธใ›ใซใชใ‚‹ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’่‡ชๅˆ†ใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ—ใญใ€‚

 

Acknowledging the situation is the key factor here, otherwise, we will forever be blinded by our bad-sided selves, and never see an opportunity to get over it and mature. It isn’t a piece of cake.

ใพใšใฏใ€ใใฎๆ€งๆ ผใŒๅŽŸๅ› ใงๆœ€ๆ‚ชใฎ็Šถๆณใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ€Œ็Ÿฅใ‚‹ใ€ใ“ใจใงใ™ใญใ€‚ใใ“ใซๆฐ—ใฅใ‹ใชใ„ใจใ€ใคใพใ‚Š่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๆฌ ็‚นใซ็›ฎใ‚’ใคใถใฃใŸใพใพใ ใจใ€็”Ÿใพใ‚Œๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚Œใ‚‹ๆ™‚ใŒๆฅใฆใ‚‚ใƒใƒฃใƒณใ‚นใ‚’้€ƒใ—ใ€ใ„ใคใพใงใ‚‚ใƒใ‚ซใชใพใพใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใƒปใƒปใƒป